Creating in Community
why your biggest ideas need other people
I walked into my recent women’s book-writing retreat with a clear plan: I was there to work on my rewrite of Creative Dysregulation. Simple, right? I wasn’t there to brainstorm new projects or get swept into grand revelations. Just refine, deepen, and write.
Well.
Cut to me, two days later, sitting in the redwoods, looking at my notebook, realizing that I hadn’t just mapped out one book. I had outlined seven.
Seven! As in, I walked in thinking I was chiseling one sculpture and ended up unearthing a whole museum. Well, a museum of small things— each book will be about 18-22k words. TBH, I’m bullish on short books. The kind you can read on a long airplane ride and take immediate action on.
And the wildest part? It didn’t feel overwhelming. It felt like relief.
For years, I had been swirling around different ideas—knowing they mattered, knowing they belonged somewhere, but unsure how they fit together. And suddenly, there it was. Laid out. Clear as day. Not just as ideas but as a body of work. A movement. A roadmap for the next chapter of my leadership.
Instead of feeling like I had too much, I felt…whole. Integrated. My ideas weren’t scattered anymore; they were a roadmap. And as a byproduct, I felt more whole and integrated, too. Like all these disparate creative parts got to climb onto the bus together—no one left behind, no one fighting for the front seat—and we hit the road, windows down, music blasting, heading straight toward something that finally made sense.
Here’s the thing: That kind of clarity? That level of expansion? It wouldn’t have happened if I were alone.
The Power of Creating in Community
Here’s what I’ve learned, over and over again, in every creative container I’ve ever led:
🔥 When people try to birth their most meaningful work in isolation, they stall.
🔥 When they do it inside community, they expand.
Not because they’re not passionate or driven enough. But because authentic creativity—whether it’s a book, a business, a body of work—pushes us to our edges.
We hit fear. We second-guess ourselves. We wonder, Is this too much? or Am I even the person to bring this to life?
We can, oh so easily, fall into patterns of avoidance, procrastination, and strange self-sabotagey behaviors. Looking at you: impulse-buying yet another notebook ‘for inspiration.’
And if we don’t have the right support, we start to shrink our ideas to make them feel safer.
But inside a creative ecosystem—inside a space where people are also walking this path, where you are seen, supported, and challenged to go bigger, not smaller—you don’t retreat. You move through it.
This isn’t just a nice concept. It’s science.
In psychology, there’s a term called co-regulation—the way our nervous systems sync up with the people around us. It’s why we feel safer in a room full of people who believe in us. It’s why therapy and coaching work. It’s why we can access more courage, clarity, and creative flow when we’re surrounded by the right people.
I call this creative co-regulation. A ‘group nervous system’ forms when we create together—one that can hold far more tension, complexity, and insight than any individual can alone.
And that’s exactly what happened for me at the retreat.
I could have second-guessed my seven-book realization. I could have talked myself out of it. But instead, I was surrounded by two amazing women who didn’t let me collapse into doubt. They helped me expand into clarity.
Creative co-regulation is how you go from second-guessing yourself in isolation to actually finishing—with sanity, momentum, and a crew of brilliant humans cheering you on.
Community is Why I Created Prismara
That’s why I built Prismara.
Because this isn’t just about creating something cool, it’s about expressing the work that is inside you.
The business. The method. The body of work. The creation that you know will ripple into the world and create beautiful, meaningful shifts in others.
Prismara is an ecosystem for soul-led leaders who are here to bring their deepest gifts into tangible form.
It’s for the ones who feel the call to build something that lasts. The ones who refuse to let their most important ideas sit in a notebook for another year. The ones who are ready to go all in—but don’t want to do it alone.
Because the truth?
✨ You weren’t meant to figure this out by yourself.
✨ You weren’t meant to navigate the highs and lows of creation in isolation.
✨ Your ideas—your soul’s work—aren’t just projects. They’re portals.
And when you create inside an ecosystem that sees you, holds you, and amplifies your brilliance— your work doesn’t just get finished. It gets embodied.
What Happens When You Say Yes to Being Held in Your Work?
I want you to imagine what it would feel like to build your most meaningful creations inside a space where you are truly held.
To bring your big, wild, ambitious ideas into a room where people get you.
To hit a moment of doubt and have someone right there to walk you through it.
To take a leap and have a whole community saying, “YES. This is yours. Keep going.”
That’s what happens inside Prismara.
I know how easy it is to think, I should be able to do this alone. To feel like you should be able to self-motivate, self-regulate, and just push through.
But let’s get real—you’re not supposed to.
Your work isn’t just something you ‘get done.’ It’s a full-body process. A deep expression of who you are. A conversation between you and the world. And, if you’re open to it, a dialogue with the universe itself—your highest self, the nature of reality, and everything in between.
And when you finally let yourself step into a space where you don’t have to hold it all alone?
You don’t just create more.
You create the work you were actually meant to bring into this world.
Are you ready to be held inside that? If so, Prismara is waiting for you.
Let’s make your creative work inevitable.
With wild love ✨
~ Kelly
Want to experience this work firsthand? Here’s how to dive in:
💎 Apply for Prismara: Ready to step into a creative ecosystem that holds and amplifies your most meaningful work? Learn more & apply here.
💎 Join an Experiential Info Session: If you’re curious but want to feel what this is all about before deciding, come to one of our live sessions this Friday or next. We’ll explore the power of co-creation IRL and answer any Qs you have. Save your spot.
💎 Attend ‘Rewriting the Inner Dialogue’ Workshop: Curious about the intersection of creativity and healing? This immersive workshop on 4/1—offered in partnership with
—blends writing, somatic experiencing and parts work to help you quiet self-doubt and strengthen your voice of confidence. Sign up here.No matter where you are in your creative journey, know this: You don’t have to do it alone. Your work—and your expansion—deserve to be championed.
📖 PS ~ Oh, and those seven books? You’ll be hearing plenty more about them soon. Each one dives into a different facet of empowered, embodied, regulated, alchemical, and cyclical creativity—and together, they form a body of work I cannot wait to share with you as the months and years go on.
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